I’m still finding it difficult to understand the dichotomy of self-isolation and social distancing with the sense of togetherness that Coronavirus is creating. We’re striving for non-contact under a threat that’s pulling us together. Our aloneness is our weapon against this virus – provided we all take up arms together.
Togetherness is everywhere: communal shopping lists; the plethora of hilarious videos that traverse the globe; the whoops of delight from kids and dads playing in the back garden – on a weekday. Yay!
On my daily walk I’m moved by the array of homemade rainbows. A particular favourite, spotted in my local pub window, was created by Barry, age 36! I’m also aware of a persistent humming, sounding a bit like Dr Who’s tardis landing. A spray of water as I stride past a driveway reveals all – a jet washer. There must be an awful lot of jet washer owners in my manor – and some sparklingly clean patios.

Another activity that has been taken up with gusto is ‘de-cluttering’. Marie Kondo has a lot to answer for. Over Easter, daughter cleaned out our lean-to. We now have two massive piles of ‘stuff’ in the back garden: pile one: refuse centre; pile two: charity shop, neither of which are open, of course.
So, those of us who are well are making improvements at home – and if you stay up past midnight you might beat the other 349,000 people waiting to order online from B&Q.
But, for those people who are in hospital with the virus, and for their loved ones waiting at home, togetherness is not an option.
Decluttering my shed isn’t an option. It would just mean moving everything out and creating a new pile in the back yard, so no point really. Happily, the paint brushes and wallpaper stripper are over in the far corner of said shed. I keep stum about this for a while and enjoy the weather instead.
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Alternatively you could start selling paint, brushes and stripper out the boot of your car…? Just a thought.
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You’re right about the dichotomy. There will be many people who are less lonely while social distancing. Normality will bring a return for some to social isolation.
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Yes, for some social distancing is their norm.
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Very thought provoking
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Thanks Grenville. Struck me as ironic.
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